The Mother of All Mothers

She “wanted it to be a holy day, a day of sentiment, not profit,”  dismissing greeting cards as “a poor excuse for the letter you are too lazy to write.”

First celebrated in 1908, when Anna Jarvis held a memorial for her own mother in Grafton, West Virginia, the celebration of Mother’s Day quickly became a movement. Jarvis chose a Sunday because she wanted it to be a “holy” day, not a holiday, and the second Sunday in May because it was the anniversary of her mother’s death.

Photograph Bettmann/Corbis ~Anna Jarvis c 1914 ~ Colourised by Loredana Crupi

Jarvis had campaigned for almost a decade to have a day set aside to honour all mothers. and in 1914, U.S. President Woodrow Wilson issued a proclamation calling for the observance of Mother’s Day. Other quickly countries soon followed suit,

Jarvis trademarked the phrases “second Sunday in May” and “Mother’s Day,” and created the Mother’s Day International Association. She was specific about the location of the apostrophe; it was to be a singular possessive, for each family to honour their mother, not a plural possessive commemorating all mothers in the world.

The mass commercialization of the day that followed was not part of Jarvis’s vision for the day. Greeting card companies and florists seized upon the glaring opportunity. The ‘holy day’ quickly became a retailing and marketing bonanza!

Jarvis was disheartened at the misinterpretation and exploitation of the day that she protested and even tried to rescind Mother’s Day. Her goal was to continue and honour the work of her mother, a peace activist and social worker, who as early as the 1850s, held ‘Mother’s Day’ work clubs to improve sanitary conditions and worked to lower the infant mortality rate by fighting disease and curbing milk contamination.  Jarvis’s also mother cared for wounded soldiers on both sides of the Civil War.

Whilst the symbol of the white carnation became entrenched in the celebrations across America, the flower traditionally given to mothers on this day in Australia is the humble chrysanthemum, as it is naturally in season during May (autumn in Australia) and some say because the name ends in “mum”, a common affectionate shortening of “mother”!

Jarvis spent her considerable inheritance and the rest of her life fighting the commercialization of “her” holiday but it was a losing battle.

Anna Jarvis died in 1948, at the age of 84, bitter, with dementia and completely penniless in a Philadelphia’s Marshall Square Sanitarium.


Today I leave you with this wonderful tribute to Mother’s Day performed by a very young Ricky Martin and a not so old Luciano Pavarotti.

Enjoy and Happy Mother’s Day!


“A printed card means nothing except that you are too lazy to write to the woman who has done more for you than anyone in the world. And candy! You take a box to Mother—and then eat most of it yourself. A pretty sentiment.”

—Anna Jarvis

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3 Responses to The Mother of All Mothers

  1. ahha you’re back to it 🙂 we have had our Mother’s day a few weeks ago here, I didn’t know this was the start of it, we used to call it Mothering Sunday, but think thats something to do with the church. Nice colouring, she sounds a formidable lady.


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